It’s a question that’s been considered by countless women before.
But although Natasha Caruana is no relationship expert – or heartbroken wife – she knows more about infidelity than most.
Even if he is separated from his wife, that is their business, and you are a threat to their marriage. You may feel that he’s your soul mate but think again. You already know that he's a liar, because he's living a lie with his wife and children. It is no different than being a thief in the night.
A real soul mate would not set you on the sidelines. How can you be sure whether you're the only "other woman" he has? She's been married to him for however many years, cleaned up after him when he's sick, raised children with him, sacrificed with him, dealt with the "damn dailies," then you come in at the 11th hour and provide a contrast to that that's new, and exciting and fun. It is no different than breaking into their house and stealing their things.
It is entirely possible that someday he may leave his wife, however, , and you have no guarantees that his marriage will end.
” If you’re involved with a married man, and you’re waiting for your turn, it’s time to re-evaluate your situation. No matter how you justify it, you are attacking his family unit.
If you’re putting your life on hold for a married man, he’s not only stolen your heart — he’s stolen your brain!
Do women go out with the intent to find themselves a married person to fall in love with? Attraction, destiny, soul mate connections, current life circumstances, physical attraction, discontent with current relationship, they are all ingredients in the recipe for an affair.
Being the other woman requires you to take a step back and take a cold, hard, analytical look at the realities of your situation.